Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Tema Rapper commit suicide after his girlfriend dumps him(The True Story)

What kind of a Rapper would end his own life because of a Girl? and the girl too isn't that beautiful aahhhh...
Gabe Smalls is really a Big Fool for killing himself over such a stupid matter..... If he gets to Hell i hope amokye whoops his ass very well... NKWASEAS3M KWA
Your parents are now going to go through lots of pains amd sorrow just because of this stupid Mistake you have done.. wo maame tw3 wate!!! Gabe Small.Woy3 Aboa
Gabe Smalls, an upcoming rapper from Tema ended his life yesterday in what is thought to be infidelity in his relationship. The 21 year old Boy is said to have beaten his Girlfriend mercilessly when he found out that his Girl was cheating on him.. The Girl to is said to have Cursed him(OBOO NE DUA) a..k.a (ANTOA) 
On 22nd november he updated his facebook status saying "Seeing the one you love love someone else is like having a dove in a cage...you love it soo much,you do everything to make sure its safe and happy but deep within it wants to fly away,soo nothin you do pleases it.....You jux gotto let it go,mourn it as if it was dead and let da pain it left you Go."
It thought Gabe had suicide thought so on sunday he went to church to clear his head and when it didnt help he ended his life.

Actor’s Manhood Exposed

What began as a muggy scene for new Ghanaian actress, Brenda Osei Bonsu, and budding actor Prince Dave Osei in Venus film’s ‘Dons of Sakawa’, ended with the unexpected when one of the two stars had the sex organ accidentally exposed to the other.

Easygoing Brenda and a daughter of a prophetess, News-One gathered, had the visual feel of Prince’s seemingly ‘huge’ manhood while she was trying to import her bedroom antics into her character. A source close to the actress said the new actress nearly collapsed after seeing her actor’s coiled genitals in his boxer shorts. The two have since been keeping what happened as a top secret, however, the scene, which contained the looming organ exposure scandal, is not helping matters as movie enthusiasts have started taking notice of it, saying ‘it is selling big time’.

How to Arouse A Woman, Part Two

Part one gave you a point of reference in knowing where a girl is. So how do you get her horny? Well, you can turn her on with your touch, and you can turn her on without touching her. I call these tactile and non-tactile forms of stimulation.

Make sure it's the right kiss
Here we have two variations: non-vaginal and vaginal. Ways to turn on a girl without touching the puss include kissing, massage, proximity (such as dancing close to her) and “being caveman.”

Let’s begin with kissing. There is one rule you need to remember on this topic … girls kiss you the way they want to be kissed. If she wants it rough, she’ll kiss you roughly. If she doesn’t want the tongue, she won’t give it to you. Calibrate your kisses accordingly.

How To Arouse A Woman, Part One


There are few things that empower a man more than his ability to arouse a woman sexually. But not every guy knows which buttons to push, since there seem to be so many, and each chick is wired differently.

So to make things manageable, I present to you an itemized list of tools, with the hope that I can bring some order to this often bewildering topic.

Turn her on
Before we get started, let me clarify what we’re talking about. You want to get girls horny, with the ultimate goal being sex. Most articles I reviewed pertaining to “how to turn on women” made much reference to stuff like romance and being a gentleman. That’s fine, but for the purpose of this article, I’m gonna assume you have these other aspects covered. Let’s instead discuss the stuff that actually gets her lady bits wet. Sound fun? Super duper.

First, you will need a scale to refer to telling you where a girl is … bone dry to dripping wet. Here you go …

Levels of Arousal
Having a system to tell a girl’s readiness to bang based on her arousal would be very useful. Of course, you can’t put a probe in her birth canal to measure drippiness, and so much of this may be a judgment call. When trying to gauge a girl’s level of arousal, look for a cluster of behaviors indicating where she’s at. Any single cue out of context may not be reliable.

And finally, this is NOT a ladder. Some guys have devised escalation ladders (starting with the back of your hand on her elbow, ending up with sex), but I think they’re lame and artificial. You may start escalation with a girl by grabbing her ass or making out with her, then jump back down to very light friendly touch, and then leap forward to foreplay. It’s this kind of unpredictable and dominant behavior that turns girls on, not the standard and safe linear progression a ladder would have you follow.

The LAST goes from 1 to 10, where 1 is un-aroused and 10 is highly eager to fuck. At 8 and above, girls are usually pretty horny and good to go. Use your intuition and calibration, and don’t look at this like a rule book. These are just indicators you can refer to when trying to discern her readiness.

The Levels

Level 1
High fives, hand shakes, knuckle bumps
Side hugs
Thumb war

Level 2
Simple, friendly hugs
Arm-in-arm walking

Level 3
She slaps your thigh while seated
Holding hands, fingers not intertwined
Tickling her
Longer hugs, held tighter
Briefly massaging her shoulders while she sits

Level 4
Hold hands, fingers intertwined
Caress her forearm

Level 5
Smack her ass (and she’s ok with it)
She squeezes your thigh
She sits on stool, straddling your legs/body as you stand

Level 6
Her palm on your chest briefly
Massage her upper back while she’s lying down
Caressing her face, neck or hair
Brief kisses, mouth to mouth
She runs her fingers through your hair

Level 7
Light making out. She doesn’t use tongue much.
Her hand stays on your chest, such as squeezing your nipple
Massage her lower back, thigh and butt
Kissing/biting her neck
You clench her hair at the back of her head
Having her suck your thumb
Caressing her lips with your finger
Touch her breast over her clothes
Briefly touching (but not rubbing) her vag area over clothes

Level 8
Heavy making out. She uses her tongue/sucks/bites
She initiates the make outs
She’s got her hand on your junk, outside of pants
Squeezing her ass during makeout
Playing with her breasts, skin-on-skin
Sucking her nipple
She keeps her arm across your lap with her elbow touching your cock
As you hold hands, the back of hers is against your cock
Stands with her pelvis against yours, rocking or gyrating
You briefly rub her cooch over clothes

Level 9
She’s giving you head
She’s rubbing your junk, skin on skin
You’re intensely rubbing her cooch over her clothes

Level 10
Fingering her or eating her out
In part two, I’ll define the various forms of stimulation at your disposal.
Source: anbrcama.com

Bekwai P0rn Video: 7 Girls Named

HUNDREDS OF people are flocking to seek pleasure from the images of the Bekwai pornography victims as circulation spreads like a blazing fire in areas such as Bekwai, Obuasi, New Edubiase and other surrounding areas.

The widely distributed pornography videos and still pictures captured several women from various parts of the country in ‘hot sex’ sessions with the protagonist, Alfred Acheson, believed to be a pornography dealer.

So far, seven of the women, who have been recognized and identified by their friends and relatives, are currently living in fear and feeling humiliated.

Out of the seven, five of them are residents of Obuasi, with two living at New Edubiase in the Adansi South District of the Ashanti region.

The Obuasi victims consist of a nurse, a ‘waakye’ (rice and beans) seller, a married woman and two students, who live at suburbs such as Boete, Anyinam and Brahabebome in the Golden city, while the Edubiase victims have been identified as students.

Tiffany: The Nude Pictures Were Meant For My Boyfriend

Tiffany Hayden's new look

Ghanaian female rapper/singer, Tiffany of “Fake London Boy” fame who was recently in the news following the scandal of her nude pictures going viral, has confirmed taking several photographs of her exposed body on her mobile phone.

She however explains that the said pictures were for private purposes and meant for her boyfriend who resides outside the country.

Tiffany (Full name: Tiffany Owusu Hayden), opened up for the first time about two pictures of her exposed breasts being circulating on the internet (Face book, Twitter and other social networks and websites) in an exclusive interview on Peace FM’s “Entertainment Review”. Asked who took them; she said “I took them myself for private use”.

“First of all I have a personal life aside the music I do. I have a son and a man in my life but the nature of my work does not keep me stable at a particular place all the time. I am always traveling around but that doesn’t mean I should forget about my personal life,” she explained.

According to her, she communicates regularly with her boyfriend on Blackberry and sometimes when they miss each other they exchange pictures on the phone. “So I took those pictures for my boyfriend my fiancĂ©e who is the father of my son. It wasn’t for the public, Ghanaians or my fans”.

When host Kwesi Aboagye asked her about her boyfriend’s reaction to the leaked photos, Tiffany replied, “what he always told me was to be strong for myself and for my son... he knows that the pictures were meant for him”. She added that though some of her friends and family members might have obviously confronted him about this, she believes “He is very a strong man that is why he is with me because I am a strong woman”.

“We’ve both learnt from this and are all growing out of it,” she said.

Recounting the genesis of the incident, Tiffany revealed she took the pictures about five or seven months ago, before she traveled to London for the Ghana Hiplife Festival. Asked whether it was out of her own volition or her boyfriend coaxed her into taking the shots, the “Azonto” crooner replied, “it’s a private issue”. She however pointed out when one is involved with someone intimately and the couple have a child, its different from a mere relationship, “when you are away, you have to do certain things to let him that you still think about him and care for him”.

Asked how her personal pictures came to be in the public domain, Tiffany narrated that she was attacked by armed robbers at her home some months ago, where her money, jewelry, Plasma Television sets, bags, dresses and other personal items including her blackberry phone, were stolen.

“So I think that is how the pictures got out. For me I thought it was a personal cell phone I was using and I knew there was something like that on it at that time but I never thought I would lose it (phone) at that time. So it was stolen and someone decided to release it on the internet”.

She said she reported the case to the Tema Community 18 Police after the incident happened, but she had to travel to the UK.

“I returned to Ghana to perform at the Red Lipsticks All Female concert…later I received calls from some faceless people who claimed they have my phone and threatened to blackmail me if i refuse to pay them a ransom,” she revealed.

The blackmailer(s) initially demanded $40,000 dollars which Tiffany bargained down to about $15,000. Tiffany said she again had to travel to South Africa so she reported the case to the CID unit at Police headquarters before she left, only to be called by her mother that her nude pictures are all over the internet whiles she was in SA.

On Friday, November 25, 2011, Tiffany said the Police called to inform her that they have three suspects in their grips. According to the police, the suspects claimed coming across the phone “somewhere” so they took the memory chip out and sold the phone.

The suspects later said they saw Tiffany’s pictures on the memory chip, searched for her number and called to blackmail her.

5 suspects, all Nigerians students in Ghana, are in the grips of the law. They were arraigned before court last week and have been remanded for two weeks.

The “Last One” hit maker used the opportunity to apologize to her fans, friends and family members who were offended by the entire episode. She thanked the Ghana Police and everyone anybody who in diverse ways supported her when the incident occurred.

She said she has learnt her lessons adding that even if she decides to take any nude pictures of herself in the future she will delete them immediately after it had served its intended purpose.

Tiffany's Nude Pictures 

Raw Sex Tape Out Of Ghanaian Actress?

“Oh hurry up, hurry up Stephen…oh baby you are killing me…oh baby I am coming…”

These were sensually exciting words from a lady which have been captured in a 60-second sex video currently in circulation in Accra and Kumasi.

The video tape has generated what may become the biggest controversy in Ghana’s entertainment industry. Persons who have watched the video claim the light-skinned lady who was being ‘sexually assaulted’ from behind in a ‘doggy-style’ resembles a Ghanaian celebrity. The sex video, which can appropriately be described as a ‘porn video’, shows only the face of the lady obviously enjoying a steam sexual intercourse with a slightly tall dark-skinned man she called Stephen.

The sex was hot and raw as they enjoyed each other without a condom in sight. The lady’s hair was blond and though the News-One newspaper has seen the video and believes a striking similarity in voice, accent and looks with a celebrity, the paper, at this point cannot be emphatic about the identify of the lady. It has also been uploaded on several Facebook walls in Ghana. Several persons have downloaded the video onto the mobile phones and are circulating it through Bluetooth and BBM.

The Video
The video does not show the guy’s face. It only shows his body but shows the lady’s face very vividly. She was not naked and had not even removed her panties. She had bent over in the corner of a three-in-one sofa and protruded her backside to face the guy who has standing right behind her. In the video, the lady had shifted her panties to the left side of her buttocks and because she was bent, it gave the guy a free range to bang. While the guy was banging from behind, the lady was head shouting in ecstasy” “Oh hurry up, hurry up Stephen…oh baby you are killing me…oh baby I am coming…” The sofa was made of pink-coloured leather while the room in which the couple was mating was painted blue.

While majority of persons who have seen the video are mentioning the name of a particular Ghanaian female celebrity, others say this could not be true and that the lady in the video looks more of a white lady than the said celebrity. There is also another controversy on why the video has been deleted and reloaded several times on various internet sites and Facebook walls. It seems as if each video hardly lasts a day on any site before it gets removed and then reloaded hours later, creating a seek-and-find excitement amongst internet users.

Source: News-One

Man Who Filmed Hot Sex Sessions In His Room

WILD Hunt! Alfred Acheson

The police in Bekwai have mounted a manhunt for a 35-year-old man, Alfred Acheson, believed to be a pornography trader, who has taken the sleepy town of Bekwai in the Ashanti Region by surprise hitting the municipality with a sex scandal involving hundreds of ladies.

The suspected pornography dealer had since gone into hiding as the police mount a search for him, according to Superintendent Felix Kwasi Cosmos, Bekwai Municipal Police Commander, who confirmed the story to Daily Guide.

The police boss disclosed that Acheson made a theft case against a certain John Donkor of the local Pentecost church, indicating that the latter had stolen his drive.

Miss Malaika Is Not About Sexual Favors

Organisers of the Miss Malaika beauty pageant have categorically denied suggestions that success in the pageant is guaranteed only to those who are willing to offer sexual favors.

This follows the arrest of a young man for allegedly attempting to defraud a prospective contestant. The suspect, Godfred Amankwah-in a taped conversation- promised a prospective contestant in the pageant that he could guarantee her a place in the final if she would have sex with him.

But the Head of Public Relations at Charterhouse, Juno Turkson says the claims by Godfred are absolutely false. She told host of Joy FM that it only takes beauty and intelligence to participate in the contest.

“I can say for a fact that when it comes to Miss Malaika Pageant, no lady has had to give anything, but what they already had in them, that is their talent and their intelligence and their beauty; that is all you require to be in Miss Malaika.”

Source: JFM

NPP Man In P0rn Business

The Herald newspaper light on the pornographic activities at Tema Community 4 has turned a very interesting political twist, with the man involved in the sexual acts, Nana Yaw Owusu, now nicknamed “Tema Porno King,” revealed to be a staunch card-bearing executive member of the New Patriotic Party (NPP).

Nana Yaw Owusu’s version of “Listening Campaign” strategy is said to have played an instrumental role in making the parliamentary candidature of Kofi Brako for the NPP in the Tema East Constituency, possible.

When The Herald talked to Mr. Kofi Brako, the NPP Parliamentary candidate for the Tema East Constituency on the matter, he admitted knowing Nana Owusu as a constituency executive. According to him he was shocked at his conduct having known him to be a very quiet man. “I am lost for words to describe my feelings when I heard of the matter and saw the pictures,” said Mr. Brako.

Bekwai Sex Video: More Men Exposed


It has come to light that 35-year-old Alfred Acheson may not be the only man involved in what has become known as the ‘Bekwai Sex Scandal’, as the faces of some four other men have been seen in the video.

Alfred is currently on the run after video recordings of his sex escapades with ladies from Bekwai in the Ashanti region and Assin Fosu in the Central Region reached the public domain.

Aside the sex videos, the recordings also came with several still lewd photographs.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

How to make your girlfriend very happy

Here’s a list of the
cutest ways to make
your girlfriend
1. Call her as soon as
you wake up just
to say a good
2. Have a busy day
ahead? Meet up
with your
girlfriend for
3. Call her at least
once in the day to
find if she was
doing fine.
4. If she’s angry with
you, get her
flowers and
5. Girls expect their
boyfriends to listen
to their problems:
so just listen and
do not offer
6. Give her time to be
with herself; there
are times when
girls like to be
7. Give her time to be
with her
girlfriends; you
could catch up
with your guy
friends at the same time.
8. Take your
girlfriend shopping.
TIP: Read 2000 questions you
must ask ask your
9. Plan a surprise
dinner for just the
two of you at her
favorite restaurant.
10. Paint her
nails...she’ll love it.
11. If you are having a
bad time and are
upset about
something, talk to
your girlfriend
about it; don’t expect her to
understand your
12. Try to sort out
before they grow
into something big.
13. Don’t force your
girlfriend to do
something she is
not ready for.
14. Tell her that it is
alright if she is not
ready for
something; more
importantly, mean
it. 15. Care for her, love
her like no one else
does. 16. You should have a
unique way of
telling her that you
love her. 17. Girls are delicate,
handle them with
care. 18. Compliment her
and you’ll see her
look more
beautiful. 19. Loving her is not
only about mushy-
mushy things; you
could even play a
game of scrabble
together. 20. Go cycling or
maybe, swimming
together. 21. Get tickets for the
latest movie;
preferably the top
row, and don’t
forget the popcorn. 22. What about taking
her for a picnic? 23. Cook a meal for
her; preferably
edible! 24. Candle-light
dinners are the
best way to cheer
her up. 25. Catch up on a cup
of coffee with your
girl, if you have
been busy for
some time. 26. Share all your
secrets with her. 27. Talk to her about
your day - girls feel
involved this way. 28. Girls love giving
suggestions, at
least pretend that
it helped. 29. Honesty is the best
policy - be honest
to her and more
importantly, to
your relationship. 30. Give her the
support and
comfort she needs. 31. She loves you, you
are her best friend
- stand by her as
her pillar of
strength. 32. If you are good
with the brush,
you could paint a
picture of your
girlfriend. 33. Small words of
appreciation will
help for what she
does for you. 34. Love her for what
she is and not
what you want her
to be. 35. Sing her favorite
song to her on the
phone. 36. Enroll for salsa
classes together. 37. Out of town for
work, drive down
and surprise her. 38. She has an
important day
ahead, make sure
you see her before
that and tell her
that everything will be fine, she is
perfect. 39. Going on a holiday
with family? Make
sure you get her
memorable. It
doesn't have to be expensive. 40. After a hectic
week, you could
plan a weekend
together to catch
up with each other. 41. Lie down with
your head on her
lap - you’ll feel
great and she’ll feel
better. 42. Call her every ten
minutes for not-so-
important reasons,
but make sure you
do not overdo it. 43. Get a massage
appointment just
for the two of you. 44. Book the whole
restaurant for just
the two of you. 45. Take her for a long
drive and maybe
you could sit and
admire the stars
together. 46. A walk along the
beach under the
starry night sky is
romantic. 47. Wear her favorite
perfume all the
time. 48. Admire her body
as you give her a
massage. 49. Some moments are
best enjoyed in
their own
privacy; be sure of
your timing. 50. Stay indoors on a
wet Sunday
evening and
cuddle up together
and watch a
movie. 51. Meet up with her
friends (obviously
with her). 52. Be the ten-on-ten
guy for her
parents. 53. Don’t just
love your
girlfriend, respect
her - it matters a
lot. 54. Be proud of your
relationship; flaunt
it as the most
expensive thing
you possess. 55. Spend a night
together in a tent
at the beach. 56. Cuddle up on a
couch and enjoy
the feeling of just
being together. 57. Everyone makes
mistakes - forgive
her if she makes
one. 58. Celebrate your
promotion with
her - after all
there’s a
woman behind
every successful man and she
deserves to be a
part of it. 59. SMS her from work
just to tell her how
much you are
missing her. 60. Love knows no
rules. If you know
any break them for
her. 61. Don’t do anything
to break her trust -
it hurts. 62. Stay up all night
planning your next
date. 63. If you are making
love to her for the
first time, make
sure it is love and
not lust. 64. When she’s having
a bad time, give
her a warm hug -
she needs it the
most. 65. A sweet good
night kiss on the
forehead and a
warm hug is the
perfect recipe for a
good night's sleep. 66. Take your
girlfriend lingerie
shopping. 67. Write a song about
her. 68. Help her clean up
the apartment
after a party. 69. Praying together in
a religious place or
even at home. 70. If she’s not well,
take a day off just
to be at her side. 71. Send out seasons’
greetings together. 72. Frame a sketch of
the two of you
together. 73. Carry her shopping
bags for her. 74. Compliment her in
languages. 75. Send her no reason

Do women have a preferred penis size?

It doesn’t matter, I used to have a nice Asian boyfriend and his penis was tiny when not stiff – but stiff it was fine – it was quite cute as he was shy about it so for me it don’t matter.
Good sex does not depend so much on the size of the penis as the technique, the desire or the chemistry between the couple. Most often men have sex with the sole intention of satisfying their sexual hunger and forget that the woman has the same hunger they feel. Also many women, instead of telling their man what gives them satisfaction, play coy and suffer for it.
If you love your woman, try to get her to feel the same pleasure you feel. And you ladies, sex is for mutual enjoyment. Tell your man what gives you pleasure and get him to try it.
It is not really the size that matters it is the experience that a lover has that matters. The perfect penis size means nothing to a woman if her lover is selfish and uncaring to her needs.
I don’t have that much of a preference, just not too big because that hurts.
Different women like different sizes.
It depends. Having a long penis is usually just for show, but at times it also accounts for sperm count, included in the size of the scrotum. A thick penis is desired for greater flexibility to the anus or vagina, and increases pleasure. It’s all a matter of personal choice really.
I think that if too big it can cause some pain if forced or used wrong.
I prefer a skinny but long penis so that it can go far in my vagina, but it also won’t hurt when it goes in.
The biggest problem with this question is that is starts with a plural – women. Do you think there is a universal preference for anything? (OK, maybe chocolate.) I think there are any number of factors that go into a person’s sexual preferences and they can change over time as your experiences change. Some of my friends have expressed their preferences in conversation. I will say the most common preference is a larger one. I have one friend, however, who has a lot a trouble with larger guys. She gets sore, bladder infections, etc. Her husband is on the small side of average and they seem to be pretty happy. One other friend confided in me that her husband likes her to make fun of his penis. They look on the Internet at pictures of other men and make unfavorable comparisons to his. She was always a domineering figure to him, so whatever floats their boat.
I used to be firmly in the “size doesn’t matter” camp when I was married to my first husband, who was much smaller than average. I’ve remarried and my new husband is extremely well endowed. I love every bit of it. So basically, not really a question with an answer.
Well my wife has had more than fifteen lovers and some of them African American. I am 6 inches long but wide. She loves the width, which stimulates all the nerves. I also believe that quality is better than quantity. She tells me she never climaxed with any previous lovers, due to the pain or the emotional connection. With me she orgasms 98% of the time. So experience does help. Don’t worry about size. If you connect with your lover, it will be great. Just remember to include foreplay. I always do at least 15 minutes of foreplay, whether oral or playing with her breasts and using my fingers to make sure she is ready for me when I enter her. It works every time and makes the experience enjoyable.
I think it’s backwards to always look at it this way; women can exercise to make their vagina tighter, but men are stuck with the size they’re given. You’d think the question would be towards the women not the men.
Yeah. They need to be really small or else we’re not having sex. Sorry, but I will never understand what is so great about a big penis.
I usually don’t do this but…. If you honestly think that she was with 15 other men and never got off then you are kinda outta of your mind- That’s very similar to the girl that’s from outta town that just happens to be a virgin. Odd how the girls from outta town are always virgins, and girls never have an orgasm with anyone but the guy they are with, and that her current man always has the perfect sized penis when pressed for an answer, lol.
Some women prefer large penises as it makes them feel better and some prefer a more average size because anything bigger causes pain.
The vagina is very adaptable for various size penises so it is down to personal preferences in reality. A man with a 3 inch penis can satisfy the right woman.
I live in Japan at the moment. The average size for guys there seems to be smaller. If I meet a japanese girl, they tend to like the fact that I’m bigger, or even some non japanese girls living here seem to appreciate it. There were a few girls, where I couldn’t have sex with, or was too painful. But I have to say overall, you get a much better reception from girls when you are bigger, than most of the guys around you.
Maybe it’s the type of girls I’m attracting though, but I don’t think so, i’m not a big guy.
I think if I went home, I would be slighly bigger than average maybe, but wouldn’t have the power you get from having an obviously bigger than average dick. But really I think other things like money, great looks, great personality have equal power with girls.
Not the best news I know… but thats what I think

Former Miss Malaika steals car?

Winner of Miss Malaika 2006, Hamamat Montia, has been accused of stealing a $35,000 Toyota Highlander 4-Wheel drive and may soon appear before an Accra Fast Track High Court over the matter.
The accusation is coming from a certain Vesa Keskinen who is believed to be an ex-boyfriend of Hamamat Montia. Reports say Vesa has already filed a writ at An Accra Fast Track Court, alleging that sometime last year, he had to travel to Finland for business but before leaving, he asked a man by name Seth Mensah to go for the Toyota Highlander from De-Gjando Company Limited.
Vesa alleged further that when Seth Mensah got to the company, he was told that Hamamat had already gone for the vehicle though he had not given her any authority to do so. Hamamat’s ex-lover noted that he left a clear instruction that the vehicle be registered in his name but he was surprised that the vehicle ended up being registered in the former beauty queen’s name. He said all attempts to get his car from her had proved futile as he could not even establish contact with her. He therefore filed a suit against her in court as Hamamat’s posture indicated that she was out to defraud him.Vesa said he bought the vehicle for $35,000. Though Hamamat could not be reached for her side of the story, a source close to her told News One that Vesa was only out to tarnish her image and that there was more to the story. “Hamamat is not a thief and she would not steal a car. At the age of 18, she was driving KIA Rio and in some five years later if she wants to drive a Highlander, she certainly knows how to work for one. She would not steal a car,” the source noted. News One gathered that Hamamat is pursuing a Public Relations course and advancing her modeling career in the United States.
In 2008, she had a mouthwatering contract to model for Senegalese R & B singer Akon’s Konvict clothing line. She has also worked for Kikiriki ki New York and Baby Phat. Hamamat started modeling at the age of 10 and in 2006, she became the youngest person to have won the Miss Malaika pageant at age 18 when she had just graduated from Achimota School. Hamamat, the last born among three children, turned 23 in September this year.

How to be a good girlfriend and get married soon

Want to learn how to be a good girlfriend? Believe it or not, men do discuss their girlfriends from time to time. Mostly they do so to complain how their girlfriends love to talk, love to shop, cannot make concrete decisions, want to only spend money and demand too much time and attention. Well, they still love their girlfriends, but that doesn’t mean they understand them completely. In order to learn how to be a good girlfriend, you will have to first learn what exactly men are looking for in their girlfriends. When a guy cannot find any flaws with his girlfriend and listens to his friends cribbing about their girls, he thinks, “Wow, I think I have found the perfect girl! Better marry her before someone else discovers her”. And bam! You get proposed! And isn’t that what all we girls are looking for?
So we tell you how to be a good girlfriend and how to bag that proposal much sooner than you expected! Get your pencils and notebooks; you might want to take down notes here!

The secret of how to be a good girlfriend:

You might think that you are being the perfect girlfriend by sending him over 1000 messages in a day, staying over every night, cuddling too much and wanting to know where he is every second of the day. First things first, men need their space. So don’t make these common mistakes only to show You Care. Men don’t see it that way. Instead they see you as a leech who gives them no personal space! So read up on how to be a good girlfriend so that he craves for the attention, not the other way round!
  • Give him his space -
Now, to learn how to be a good girlfriend, first you have to unlearn everything you thought was best for your relationship. Men don’t want you to message them or call them every hour. They don’t want you to move in your things sneakily in to their apartments. And they don’t want you to rearrange their bachelor pads before you ask their permission. The golden rule to how to be a good girlfriend is to give the guy his space. Don’t crowd his bathroom sink counter with your makeup, don’t include yourself in all his plans and don’t call him every hour. Let him call you. That ways, he knows you respect his space and will respect yours.
  • Don’t be best friends with his -
Men hate it when women automatically assume that they must be best friends with their boyfriend’s friends. This isn’t so. Don’t force your way in to his gang; instead, earn your way in. His friends may not like you. And that’s absolutely ok. Your relationship with him is about you and him, not about his friends. So please don’t start asking his friends for lunch if you want to learn how to be a good girlfriend. Let it happen naturally and wait till they invite you for their parties. All you need to do is to be polite, courteous and friendly to them whenever you run in to them.  Maintain your own circle of friends and go with them often.
  • Maintain your mysterious elusiveness -
In a relationship, the biggest mistake is to lose your individuality. Don’t make that mistake if you want to learn how to be a good girlfriend. Keep your own apartment and make it a rule to spend 4 nights a week alone. This will keep your man wanting more! Also, don’t give up your time with friends for him. If you do that, you start to expect him to do the same. And that’s not how men see a relationship. For them, it’s equally important to hang out with their friends so make sure you do the same.
  • Show your care through meaningful ways -
We understand you want to show off to your man that you care. Just don’t do it by sending his teddy bears and cute cards to office! Guys don’t like such gifts! Instead, learn to cook his favorite recipe and surprise him with a home cooked meal on a weekday. Or, book tickets to watch his favorite team play football or hockey. Don’t try and be his mother by cleaning out his closet and arranging his underwear drawer or CD collection. Men don’t like that! So to learn how to be a good girlfriend, understand what men want from their girlfriends. They want a companion who is good company, who gets them, who laughs at their jokes and stimulates them in many ways. Be that girl.
Follow these steps on how to be a good girlfriend, and you will see that he gives you the ring in no time!

Do men love heavier women?

A new sex study finds that some men prefer their women with a few extra pounds.
A gorgeous friend of mine is about 50 pounds overweight and a single mom — but she won’t create an online profile until she reaches her goal weight. “I’m not skinny enough for Match.com,” she said, so resolute. Turns out she could be ideal just the way she is.
According to a new study published in The Journal of Sex Research, some men like their women heavy; many even prefer their partners obese. They’re called “fat admirers” and the findings reveal that they are also likely to find extremely thin women attractive.
The story asked two groups of men to rate photographs of ten types of female bodies. One group did not identify with the FA subculture, which encompasses everything from obese fetishism to the simplicity of positive support within the healthy fat movement. The other group was scouted at an FA event and was identified as FA.
Skinny people already know about FA, but they call those guys ‘chubby chasers’,” my friend explained, then turned to her coloring 8-year-old daughter to tell her she didn’t like the phrase. I agree; chubby chaser is awful. But I’m not sure fat admirer sounds much better.
In the study, the FAs preferred the photographs of women with a body mass index (BMI) of 29.24, which is just shy of obese according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. BMI is determined by dividing weight in kilograms by height in meters, and the example reported in the story explained that a woman at 5’6 is overweight at 155 pounds and obese at 190 pounds.
Wikipedia has an entry on the FA subject, and describes fat admirers as typically heterosexual males. However, the preference for a bigger partner is inclusive of straight women and gay folks, known eponymously as female fat admirers and gay fat admirers. What’s unexpected from the study is that FA men also liked the photographs of dramatically underweight women — the report uses the word “emaciated” — with a BMI of less than 15.
Obese and emaciated women struck their fancy? Is FA healthy or not?
The lead researcher said the findings suggest a rejection of “sociocultural norms.” That’s fine science, but the polarity of obese and emaciated is weird, no? Human physical attraction shows traceable socio-anthropological patterns. Replace the word fat with robust, thick or heavy if you want to, but it’s still instinct to want someone because we perceive him as a healthy mate. I recognize that within the subset of FA, there are great guys who simply like more than a little junk in the trunk. But to view obesity or emaciation as sexually attractive is, frankly, suspicious. And I said so.
“If a guy doesn’t like me, I just assume it’s because I’m fat,” my friend said. She’s been divorced for six years and dating for four, and whenever we talk about her weight or her diet, she has a familiar tone of resignation. She added: “Just like anything else that’s rooted in a superficial desire, there are the authentic guys and there are the creeps.”
I’ll give it up that the break from wanting a bony, over-exercised real housewife of Orange County is refreshing, but a new PC term doesn’t change the fact that fat admiration is a highly superficial preference. On the other hand, what woman at some point in her single dating life didn’t hit on a tall guy just because he was tall? And, sorry, but at no time to no man am I ever going to say “Don’t date me because you’re seriously attracted to my face.” Is an initial attraction for being big any different?
We’d love to know your opinion of fat admirers. Is it genuine and healthy fat acceptance? Or is it … chubby chasing? Please, tell us.

Men who are raped by women

Of course, the much more important question here isn’t medical; it’s criminal. Can a woman rape a man?”
My impulse to click was exactly the reaction CNN’s web team had targeted. But I read the article for a reason other than sexual curiosity. It was more a medical question: Can a woman really rape a man? What if he ejaculates? Is this rape?
The news story was this: Three women in their 20s were charged with raping 17 men in Zimbabwe and keeping their sperm in condoms for some sort of health-related ritual. (That logic is reason enough for the world to step up efforts to educate girls.) The young women apparently used drugs and raped the men at gunpoint. In regard to men raped by women, this is where the medical question popped into my head.

Can Men Come In A Stressful Situation?

We all know that a woman can certainly be raped while drugged and full of terror, but a man, well, a man has to sort of function to complete the task. But can he function on drugs or at gunpoint? I know men who can’t even pee if someone is watching.
Not convinced that a Google search would yield my answer, I decided to go to a real authority: my predominantly male Facebook page. There is a nice cross section of the male body (pun intended) among my 5,000 friends, so I knew they would have the answers. Not surprisingly, the comment stream was long. At the beginning, my male friends were as confused as I. Some dismissed the whole notion that this was a rape.
“Unless you are a straight man with dudes forcing sex on you, you can’t be raped,” said one. “You can’t rape the willing,” said another. More than a couple said they couldn’t comment because they were busy booking a ticket to Africa.
So, I brought up the drug and gunpoint thing again. Was ejaculation possible under such circumstances? The answers were mixed.

What Guys Think About Men Raped By Women

“If you’re scared and drugged, you’re not going to orgasm.”
“I don’t agree. If a man is stimulated, he would ejaculate regardless of ‘willing’ or not.”
“It’s not uncommon, since men produce sperm when intoxicated.”
Then came a true voice of wisdom. One of my Facebook friends teaches at a medical school and tells me this very question is sometimes on medical board exams. So here’s how the professor weighed in:
“Ejaculation is a spinal level reflex; it can happen. I have seen it happen in people having seizures or read documented evidence that it happens during hanging too. It’s even a question asked on med boards often enough whether a tetraplegic can ejaculate. It’s my understanding that as long as the sympathetic nervous arc is intact, one can come. For erection it’s a parasympathetic one, and it’s influenced by the higher centers, i.e. erotic thoughts, etc.”
Thanks, Doc. In household language, he’s basically saying that an erection isn’t necessary to produce sperm. Got it.
Of course, the much more important question here isn’t medical; it’s criminal. Can a woman rape a man?  Yes. If someone does not agree to have sex with another and a sexual act is forced upon them, that is called rape. And it is clearly illegal, hopefully as much in Africa as in North America.

Africans must rise and shut ‘lecturer’ Cameron up – Kwame Akuffo

Kwame Akuffo
The threats by British Prime Minister to ‘starve’ African countries which abhor and maltreat homosexuals have ruffled many nerves and sent harsh tongues wagging.
David Cameron in an interview with journalists said the rights of gays and lesbians must be protected and warned that the UK will withhold aid to those countries which will fail to respect those rights.
Religious groups in Ghana felt offended, but a lawyer Kwame Akuffo is even more incensed by Cameron’s remarks.
Head of the Presbyterian Church of Ghana Prof Emmanuel Martey in an interview with Joy News said Cameron lacked the global understanding of people’s cultural sensibilities and warned no country, including the UK has the right to tell another country how to frame its laws.
He stressed the call for African countries to recognize gay practice is part of a grand strategy by forces of darkness, insisting the Presbyterian Church of Ghana is a Bible-believing church and will live by the dictates of the Bible.
Prof Martey said the Presby Church of Ghana at a just ended General Assembly in Abetifi has cut any form of relationship with groups or churches which have openly ordained gay ministers.
A private legal practitioner in Accra, Kwame Akuffo is even more vehement in his reprimand of Cameron’s remarks.
He told Joy News’ Dzifa Bampoh that African’s must rise and shut David Cameron up on a sensitive gay issue which attacks the very moral foundation of Africans.
He said the west has no right to export any sexual orientation and seek to impose it on Africans amidst threats of withholding aids.
“I get the impression that David Cameron has in the last couple of weeks has the penchant of going around lecturing people. Over the Eurozone crisis and European debt, he was in Brussels last week trying to lecture the Germans – he got shouted down by the French.
“I think that we as Africans must stand up and shut him down on this matter.
“First and foremost, given the standing of our cultural values and norms it is completely deficit. You do not export sexual orientation and seek to withhold aid if people do not comply with your orientation,” he argued.
He described Cameron’s position as merely hypocritical, especially when British government has deepened its trade relationship with Saudi Arabia, a country which only last week, reportedly, had some of its citizens’ decapitated and beheaded for one offence committed or another.
“Each decent loving individual knows that these crimes are reprehensible but the British have dealt with them. On what basis therefore do they think they can come to Africa because they think we are weak and decide to export sexual orientation?”

From: Ghana/Myjoyonline.com

Sex Tourism In Hohoe

The Tourism Management Team (TMT) of the Wli Water Falls in the Hohoe municipality has expressed concern over the emergence of sex tourism in the area.
It has been alleged that some tourists use money to entice young girls for sexual activities, thus casting a negative image on the high potential of tourism for poverty alleviation, employment generation, socialisation and relaxation.
A member of board of TMT, Mr Cleophas Gayi expressed this concern at a forum held at the precincts of the waterfall during the visit of 22 tourists who were undertaking a tour of along identified routes in Benin, Togo, Ghana and Burkina Faso.
The tourists are operating a 20-day solidarity caravan coordinated by M&J Travel Tours of Ghana, ADETOP of Togo, Association Burkinabe d’ecotourisme of Burkina Faso and the Eco-Benin of Benin.
They are drawn from France, Belgium, Chile, Benin, Italy, Burkina Faso and Ghana.
The national coordinator of Eco-Benin, Mr Gautier K. Amoussou said the visit would explore the concept of home-stay to replace lodging in hotels with the bid to let more revenue from tourism go to the communities for development.
He said the alternative livelihood for land owners who had been displaced by the location of tourism sites would be considered to ensure the preservation and sustainability of tourist attractions.
The Deputy Minister said Government was committed to ensuring that every region enjoyed its fair share of the national development and the Better Ghana Agenda and that government was collaborating with Vodafone Wholesale to undertake the project.
He appealed to chiefs and people living along communities where the cables would be routed to lend support for early completion of the project.
Mr.Armah also thanked the Burkina Faso counterparts for ensuring that the project came to fruition after the ministerial declarations between Burkina Faso and Ghana in 2009 to start the fibre optic connectivity.
Mr. Edwin Provencal, Managing Director of Vodafone Wholesale, whose speech was read by his deputy, Mr Kenneth Asare, said Vodafone was the only service provider partnering government to connect the less deprived areas to information superhighway.
He thanked government for the support, saying the partnership would create an ICT infrastructure in-country that would eventually open up unlimited opportunities for the citizenry, adding that his outfit remained committed to ensuring that Ghanaians reaped the full benefit of ICT usage and continue to promote digital literacy.
Mr. Mohammed Morchid, Managing Director, ONATEL-SA, Burkina Faso attested that communication between the two countries suffered direct and reliable link overthe years hoping that the project would reduce the high cost and transit rights to establish calls.
He said the project would stimulate the traffic of the sub region and enable ONATEL-SA to access SAT 3-point in Accra and to other submarine cables along the Ghana coast.
Source: Daily Graphic

Saturday, July 30, 2011

How To Take Care of Your Vagina

A normal vagina is warm and discharges a natural cleanser that keeps a balance between healthy and unhealthy bacteria in that area. This fluid doesn't itch, burn or smell bad. It varies in colour from clear to white, depending on where you are in your cycle. It appears yellowish when dry. So use water alone to wash the outer layer and not the inside. Naturally, your vagina is cleaner than your mouth.

Potency Of A Woman

Once upon a time, a woman visited a ‘jujuman’ for a charm to help her win her husband’s love. She wanted her husband to love her than any other woman in the world. The jujuman promised to help her, if only she can retrieve some items to be used for the charm, and then it’ll be done for her. Because she was bent on getting this charm, she will do anything to get it. So she asked the jujuman for the items.

The jujuman said, in order to prepare the charm, he’ll need a strand of hair from the mane of a male lion, the canine teeth of a male lion and one finger nail of a male lion. Even the jujuman saying this knew this will be impossible, but after sitting for a while, the woman agreed to bring the items to the surprise of the jujuman. So she asked when to bring them and he replied, “as long as you get them”.

Bent on getting her charm, the woman searched the forest till she found a den with a lion in it, but initially she viewed it from afar and knew that the moment she approaches the den, she’ll be devoured by the lion. So she decided to go home and device a plan. Over the night, she couldn’t sleep, she stayed awake the whole night thinking of how to get the required items from the lion. By the time the cock crowed in the morning, she was struck by an idea and was confident she’s going to get the items by all means possible.

She got off bed, took her bath and took a basket and went to the market to purchase fresh cow meat. She roasted it nicely such that even the neighbours couldn’t resist it. She carried it to the lion’s den stood a distance and threw the meat at the entrance, the lion rushed out and found the meat but did not eat it, she hid somewhere watching everything. She was a bit disappointed but did not give up, the next day, she came came back with a raw meat and surprisingly, the lion devoured it all with passion and from there she knew how the lion liked it. She kept bringing the meat till she was able to get close to the lion’s den. She fed the lion every day for a year and finally she became like a friend to the lion and was actually able to get close to the beast and it won’t harm her. Now it got to a point, the lion became like a pet, she could actually stroke it without the beast harming her. She started petting the lion and anytime she does it, she actually takes out a hair from the lion without the lion feeling it, till she got a significant amount.

It was left with the next task, she started adding bones to the meat she’s been bringing till one day the lion had one stuck in its teeth and was in pain, she provided herself as a friend who wants to help and while taking out the bone, took out a teeth without the lion noticing.

Finally with the same petting and pampering, she was able to retrieve a nail from the lion. After getting all that was required, she hurriedly rushed to the jujuman, happily to give the items. The jujuman was shocked to the bones to realize the woman was actually able to retrieve these items from a life lion. Shocked, he asked the woman to explain to him how she was able to retrieve all the items from the lion. The woman narrated every single move she made to the jujuman, the jujuman smiled and said, “good! That’s the key to your happiness”. Apply all that you did to get this items from a lion on to your husband and he’ll love you forever and no other woman will be able to do what you did. Confused and angry, the woman asked, “so is there not anything to use on him” the Jujuman replied, “ everything you need to use, you already have it” just use it and he’ll be yours forever. If you were able to patiently get all these from a lion, then you can bring any man to his knees, so use what you did to retrieve them on your husband and you wouldn’t face any competition.


A man needs a woman who is courteous, caring, understanding, loving, respectful and supportive. Not one who retorts back when there’s an argument. The secret of ending an argument with a man no matter how angry he is, is by saying am sorry and all his anger melts away, even if he was wrong, you will be surprise how it’ll be reciprocated, he’ll suddenly apologize knowing he’s at fault, but when you keep arguing with him to prove yourself, you give him more room to be violent. Every man yearns for a decent woman, a woman who knows how to dress and cover most of her body. If you think showing some parts of your body will attract some men, then yes! 

It will but they won’t stay, he will jump in for it and leave. Every man is a jealous man, one way or the other, never cheat on a man and you will stand out unique, because most men cheat for retaliation. The easiest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, yes its true, but you just don’t lay food on the table, you need to be a good cook, in fact you need to be better than his mum. Every man needs a woman who’s extremely neat, a woman who cares not only about her body but her environment too. The first trick men use to determine a neat woman is after sex, what you do to the bed sheet. Do you just dress up and leave or you spread them.

 If you are not good at this, it’s likely your man will cheat on you, with the idea of still searching. Women think, since the man is the head of the house he must take charge, but little do they know that many men actually like a woman who takes charge of the home, a woman who is in control of the house by putting the children in order before he arrives home. Not allowing the children to destroy his property and making sure they do the right thing. Many women think they are the only ones who need pampering but on a more technical note, a man needs pampering more than a woman, just that we shield it inside, a woman who knows how to pamper a man always has an upper hand. 

By the time he walks through the door, you already have food ready, you take out his shirt, remove his shoe and tie and ask him how his day was and sit by him to have a chat (you may ask, do people do this in this time and era, yes! and they are those who always win and take your guy away from you) and even if you have a complain about something, you wait till its late in the night, then you voice it out when you in bed, every man will have the ear to listen, not immediately he arrives from work. Every man needs a woman who is willing to share, compassionate, helpful and understanding. 

Everyman craves for attention, always give all your attention to a man and he’ll be proud of you, don’t try chatting with any man you meet on the street in the pretense he is your friend, the best is to say hi and continue with him, if you keep stopping every hundred metres to chat with another man, you’ll be sending the wrong signals. A man needs a woman who’s proactive and observant, the one that walks into your room and immediately observes things are not in order and puts them in order. 

Go beyond the normal everyday sex routine in a man’s life and you win his heart forever, he will still look at other ladies, yes! But in his heart he knows none is better than you and that makes you the winner and it’s the license to the alter. Every man has an ego, don’t try to suppress it, learn to maintain it and he’ll be yours forever. If you don’t know this, you’ll always end up with a broken heart and hate men all the time thinking you did everything right but when in fact you doing everything wrong….these are the little things A MAN IS WORTH.

How to be a virgin breaker or a cherry popper!

It all depends on u the man, the way u handle her will either make it painful or enjoyable. Wen a woman is making love 4 the 1st time, usually they hv a hymen which needs to break b4 penetration n usually, dis breaking is very painful unless u the man go abt it very carefully or else it'll be a very painful experience. in order to make a woman enjoy sex 4 de 1st time, u need to be extra careful n tke time to romance her so she can be very wet n aroused to receive a man. U need to really put her in the mood b4 evn attempting to penetrate her, in dat case, she'll nt feel much pain. The feeling wil be a mixture of pain n sweetness, it nw depends on u the man to make the sweetness greater than the pain. Remember, in every love making, a woman enjoys 70% of it while a man gts 30%, so u hv an advantage of satisfying her more than urself.


A woman wants to be held tight, to be told everything will turn out alright, she wants a man who understands that she can't always be strong, she wants a comfort in the night to be told she's safe in her lover's arm. She wants to be told she's beautiful, especially when she doen't feel it, she doesn't want to hear frustrated sighs when she's down, she wants to hear I LUV YOU. A woman wants compassion and love, she needs to be told everyday that she's loved in everyway when she's down and if you don't knw what to do, just hold her close to you, she needs to be touched in everyway, she wants to be fought for, to know she's worth the sacrifice that you'll go through. She wants to know you love her deeply and if you don't show it she'll think you don't. So if you want a woman's heart, just keep one thing in mind, she'll give you everything she's got, if you do the same, but if you deceive her, there's only so far u can go, before her love starts to die, and in the end, it'll be you who is left to cry.....know what a woman is worth.


1. There are tons of nerve endings ...
… in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!) that stimulate desire. That's why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely arousing and satisfying.

2. Pay attention to those "See ya later" pecks. If your guy ...
… routinely only gives you a quick kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that he's guarded and doesn't emote easily. If this is a more recent development, it's a warning sign; he may be feeling ambivalent about the relationship.

3. Forty percent of men say that ...
… a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready to head to the bedroom. (Thirty percent said that grabbing their crotch will do it. Duh.)

4. Instantly turn up the kissing intimacy by ...
… closing the "A-frame": a smooching stance in which you and your guy are in the middle of a smooch but your hips are a mile apart. By pressing your hips together, the degree of desire quickly rises.

5. The best way to kiss a guy's ear? Kiss and ...
… suck on his earlobe for a moment and then trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue. (Bonus points if you whisper something naughty to him.)

6. Men initiate open-mouth kissing to transfer ...
… libido-boosting testosterone to their partner. So when he's getting a little more aggressive, it's not just about his desire — he wants you to be a bit more amorous too.

7. Men are more than twice as likely ...
… to sleep with a bad kisser than are women.

8. Fifty-four percent of women ...
… between the ages of 18 and 24 say they've kissed another girl. That number drops to 43 percent for those between 25 and 34.

9. During the Middle Ages, people signed legal contracts ...
… by making an "X" on the document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That's how XX became shorthand for a smooch.

Size does nt matter. The length of a woman's vagina is 4inches!

Even in this supposedly enlightened century, men fret about penis size. Though the vast majority of guys have more than enough bulk to perform well as lovers, there is a widespread masculine obsession that 'more would be better'.

We get a constant flow of info n messages from males who are worried that they are 'too small'. Vast sums of money can be made by exploiting this obsession, but other than surgery, there is little that is clinically proven to increase penis size.

Any woman reading this article may find it puzzling that so many men are concerned about the length of their penis and wish they had 'just a couple of inches more'. But that's the way that a lot of men are.
Size matters
To the average man, his penis is, consciously or unconsciously, one of the most important things in the whole world. At an early age he discovers it and immediately becomes fascinated by it.
But then a note of uncertainty enters his mind: 'Isn't mine rather small?' Look at Dad's, look at big brother's, look at those in the men's changing room - and he asks himself if he will be as big as that.
And so he goes on through life, always a tiny bit sensitive about the size of his organ, always convinced that it would be nicer if it were just that little bit longer.
No matter how often it's written that penile size doesn't matter, and that women aren't attracted to a man because of the length of his organ, the average male continues to think the same way.
The average female cannot understand this obsession with penile measurement. So if you're a woman, never belittle a man's penis in bed, even as a joke, or say anything to indicate that you think it's small. The guy may take you seriously, and if he does, he'll be deeply hurt.
We have known men who have gone on to have problems with impotence (erectile dysfunction) after someone made an unthinking remark about their dimensions. But almost all of these men had a perfectly normal male organ. Each one just thought he was very small compared with other men.
It is also worth noting two points about women:
some women really dislike the idea of a large penis, and may be frightened by one that is too long.
some women are much more impressed by the thickness of a penis, rather than its length. This is because some females like the sense of feeling stretched round the entrance to the vagina – so if a guy is quite broad at the base of his penis, this can feel very exciting and satisfying to such women
A question of perspective

The trouble is that every man sees his own penis in a foreshortened view. The angle at which you look down inevitably makes your penis seem shorter than it is.
But when you glance at another man's organ, there's no such foreshortening effect, so very often it'll look as though the other guy is slightly better endowed.
A lifetime of comparison of this sort (and virtually every male does a quick mental check on each naked man he sees) can easily make you feel a bit inadequate. But it's important to realise the facts about penis length.
Average penis length

A non-erect penis usually measures between 8.5cm and 10.5cm (3-4 inches) from tip to base.

The average figure is about 9.5cm (3.75 inches), but this kind of precise measurement is rather valueless. Many factors can cause a temporary shrinkage of two inches or more, for instance cold weather or going swimming, so you needn't worry if you happen to fall short of the average figure.

Of course, it's true that some men have big penises and some have smaller ones, just as some men have small feet and some have big feet, but the measurement is not - repeat not - an index of virility.

Most people think that a tall man will usually have a large penis, but this is not entirely true. The distinguished American researchers Masters and Johnson measured the penile lengths of more than 300 men.
The largest organ was 14 cm (5.5 inches) in the flaccid state. It belonged to a slim man who was 5' 7" tall (170 cm).
The smallest penis measured 6cm (2.25 inches). It belonged to a fairly heavily built man of 5' 11" (180cm).

It's also worth pointing out that there is no correlation between penile size and race.
Average size of erections

We've talked about the length of the penis in its ordinary non-erect state, but how long should it be when it's erect?

Interestingly, most penises are very much the same size when erect.
The man whose non-erect penis is smallish will usually achieve about a 100 per cent increase in length during sexual excitement.
The man whose non-erect penis is on the largish size will probably manage about a 75 per cent increase.
This means the great majority of penises measure between 15cm and 18cm (6-7 inches) when erect, with the average figure being about 16.5cm (6.5 inches).

So you can see that even if a man has got a 'small' penis, he's got a built-in compensating factor that will bring him up to about the same size as the guy who appears to be 'better equipped' in the shower room.
Sex and women

Virtually every man forgets that it doesn't matter how long or how short your penis is, because the vagina will accommodate itself to any length.
The vagina of a woman who hasn't had a child is only 7.5cm (3 inches) long when she's not sexually excited. The figures for women who have had babies are only slightly different.
Even when aroused, a woman's vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm (4 inches).

This means any man's penis will fill her vagina completely, unless you happen to be one of those rare guys with an erect penile length of less than four inches.

You're probably now wondering how the average man with an erection of six inches manages to insert his penis into the vagina at all.

The vagina has the most remarkable capacity for lengthening if something is introduced into it gradually.

So the exceptional man whose erect penis is eight inches long can still make love to any woman, providing he excites her properly and introduces his organ very slowly. If he does this, her vagina will lengthen by 150 or 200 per cent to accommodate him.
What if I'm not happy about my penis size?

What treatments are there to increase penis size?
Many companies claim they know how to enlarge your penis - for a price.

There has been several medical conferences at which leading experts have spoken about penis size and penis enlargement.
Their opinions on the various methods that are so widely advertised to the public can be summed up as follows.
Pills or patches for increasing penis size: a complete waste of time.
Penile enlargement surgery: of uncertain value and sometimes dangerous.
Penile enlargement exercises: probably pretty futile.
Penile suction devices: probably of little use.

Several European experts say that the relatively new stretcher or extender devices may sometimes be of value in giving a man a little extra length.
Surgery to increase penis size

A number of private clinics now offer operations that claim to make the penis look bigger. The expense of this type of surgery is very great and there is a risk of complications like bleeding, infection or deformity.

One surgical procedure that has become popular since 2005 is slicing through the ligament that supports the penis.

This makes the penis dangle more, so it looks longer when not erect. But it will make no difference to the size of your erection - and furthermore it won’t come up as high as it used to before the op.

Another type of surgery involves injecting your own fat into your penis to make it more bulky. This may not work, and it can lead to complications.

Make your vagina more slimy, tighter n lubricative enough 4 penetration...

Nw wot am abt to tell u ryt nw cn't be found in any medical book, its an ancient way of making women smell gud dwn stairs n making their vagina more slimy, tighter n lubricative enough 4 penetration. After doin dis, u'll realize u wudn't be needing all those products on the market dat u've been douching urselves wit jst to make u fresh. Nw lets get bk to our fruit; tomato. Nw if u out der n u r allergic to tomato, den I pity u. Tomato is 1 of the most beneficial fruits u can find on the market bt I knw most of u reading this only knws its purpose as food. Hv u ever tried asking urself, in the era where perfumes n deodorants were not available, wot were our ladies back den using to keep demselves fresh; tomato. This is an ancient remedy dat i'll be glad to share wit u n trust me, u'll be glad at the results. Nw dis wot u do, as a lady, u need a fresh riped tomato, the hard ones, nt the mashed ones, nw cut it into 2 jst as u'll cut a lemon to rub in ur armpit, rub the half over ur vulva making sure u get it into the corners n crevices, dats within the majora n e minora...now u'll be feeling gud n getting in the mood, bt pls dn't get carried away cos dats nt the purpose u rubbing the tomato, the aftermath is wot we need. Nw do this evri morning 30mins b4 u tke ur bath...u'll be surprised by the result, ur boyfrnd or husband wil be signing cheques 4 u without thinking abt it...do u wanna knw hw I discovered dis, well dats my secret, bt all I can say is dat i've been a victim 1's...lol!!!
Tomato is also a gud medication 4 body odour. If u reading dis n u knw sme1 out der who really needs help wit body odour den pay atttention n read attentively. Tomato can eliminate body odour completely if u follow dis steps am abt to tell u. In dis case, u can use tin tomatoes, jst get a small tin of tomatoes n mix it wit the water u wnt to bath wit. Mix till the water appear red n den bath with it evriday. Nw dn't think wen u do dis the water will feel sticky...nope! nafin of dat sort will happen rather u'll feel fresh afterwards. Tomato contains antioxidants so dn't joke wit it wen u see 1. Making it part of ur daily meal is also gud 4 u n its always better to take it raw.


Location of the G-spot: As can be seen in the female g spot diagram above, the Grafenberg or "G" spot is located inside the front wall of the vagina. You can find the female g spot location halfway between the back of the pubic bone and thefront of the cervix, along the course of the urethra and the bladder where it connects with the urethra. The size and exact location will vary slightly with each woman.

For some women hitting the g spot can bring deep and intense orgasms that differ from a clitoral orgasm. For other women stimulating the area called the g spot just makes them feel like they have to pee.

G-Spot orgasms are triggered by a brief, vigorous, application of rhythmical friction. The desired friction is usually achieved when intercourse is practiced from behind or in the doggy style sex position. Locate the G-Spot with your finger, the G-Spot will feel like a small bean, and when properly stimulated, may swell to the size of a dime or even as large as a quarter. Some women have large spots, just as some women have large breasts, and some men have large penises.

You will find the G-Spot located deep within the vaginal wall.
Firm controlled, pressure is needed to reach the G-Spot in its non-stimulated state. Stroking this area with a firm, masterful touch, she will experience twinges of contractions in her uterus. As she approaches the point of orgasm, if this is her first time having one this way, she may get a 'full-bladder" feeling. This happens because of the prolonged intensity of the orgasm. The clear, whitish fluid from her G-Spot ejaculation will be different from that achieved through clitoral stimulation.

The best way for a partner to discover her G-Spot.
You are more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused, and using fingers are generally more effective than a penis.

1. Ask her to lie on her belly, legs apart, and hips rotated slightly upwards.

2. Insert two fingers (palm down) and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch.

3. Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen, just above the pubic hairline, and apply a soft, downward pressure. This often helps to stimulate her G-Spot.

Position one

Guide her on to her hands and knees, with her buttocks raised and her head down. Kneel behind her and grasp her by her waist. As you penetrate her vagina in this position the head of your penis will hit her G-Spot automatically.

Position two

Guide her on to her back, raising her buttocks and lower back. As you mount her, gently bend her legs so that her knees touch her breasts. Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.

Position three

Lie on your back, with your legs extended. Have your lady straddle you, with her knees positioned outside your legs, she will be facing your feet with her back turned to you. In this unique position, your penis will easily hit her G-Spot.

Female Ejaculation

The G Spot is said to be linked with female ejaculation where women produce fluid on climaxing similiar to males except the ejaculate is usually a clear watery fluid that is not urine. The slang word for this ejaculation in women is known as SQUIRTING. There are still a lot of men out there who do not even know what this is and some have come across it and gotten scared. Thats why our next topic will be on this subject; SQUIRTING so stay "tuned."


You'll never see missionary position the same way again. "While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half," This move allows him better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. Plus, it can stimulate your G-spot. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting the zone primed for a more intense orgasm. Once your G-spot feels sufficiently stroked, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique​ (CAT) position. "He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris," "Then he rocks against the area until you peak." "The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone,"

You've probably tried an all-fours pose before (at least, we hope you have!). But while mentally the doggie-style position has great bad-girl benefits, in order to make it actually orgasmic, you need to modify it a bit. "Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you,". "Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you." Not only does this facedown configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.


With all the twisting and bending that goes on, sometimes sex can feel more like a cardio workout than a pleasurefest. That's why it's important to have at least one relaxed orgasm — inducing position in your repertoire. Such as this: "While you're on your back, he should lie on his side, turned toward you," "Swing both legs over his hips and thighs, making a bridge over them." Then, just let him gently thrust into you. If it takes you a while to climax, this pose is ideal. "It's not very aerobic, so the sex can go on for a long time without either of you tiring out," "When you want to climax, it's easy to touch yourself or he can use his top hand to stimulate you."

Girl-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm...and for good reason! "It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris," "You can touch your G-spot, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm." But you can up the ante by literally pulling a 180. Twist around so you're pointed toward his feet in reverse cowgirl position. "Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs." The benefits of this are twofold: With your legs together, the fit is even tighter, making the sensations more intense. Plus, there's increased G-spot stimulation, which combined with your own clitoral strokes, makes for an explosive orgasm.


In some cases, a simple change of scenery can aid in achieving orgasm. For this move, you'll need a kitchen table — one that comes to your man's waist. "Lie down on the table with your butt near the edge." "He enters you while standing between your legs, holding on to your hips for leverage." You can rest your feet on his shoulders or on the edge of the table. Because he's standing, his hands are free to stroke your body." "And he's at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of you, making it easier for him to touch your clitoris, unobstructed." To up your odds of orgasming, clench and lift up your butt, which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to the area.

This one's always a fan favorite — he sits and you straddle him so you're face-to-face. "You have a lot of control over the speed, angle, and motion because you can use your arms and legs to help you maneuver." "Rather than just moving upand down, which can be especially tiring for you, sway forward and back, rubbing your clitoral area against him." In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. "If you lean back just a little bit, you'll get greater G-spot stimulation and he'll be able to play with your clitoris," Plus, your breasts will be perfectly aligned with his mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.

Obviously, you know emotional attachment is essential to achieving orgasm with your guy. And there's no configuration that's more snuggly than the spoon. To assume the position, simply lie on your side, your guy scooted up behind you. Rather than move in and out, he should stay inside you, gently thrusting against the front wall of your vagina. "Aside from fulfilling your cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to your G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse." "Since he may not be able to penetrate you as deeply though, guide his hand around your hot spot." And just think: Once you've both climaxed, you'll be in perfect postcoital position as well.


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